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This is A.A. General Service Conference-approved
literature
This leaflet is intended for people approaching Alcoholics
Anonymous (A.A.) for the first time. In it we have tried to answer
the questions most frequently in the minds of newcomers—the
questions which were in our minds when we first approached the
Fellowship.
Am I an alcoholic? If you repeatedly drink
more than you intend or want to, if you get into trouble, or if you
have memory lapses when you drink, you may be an alcoholic. Only you
can decide. No one in A.A. will tell you whether you are or not.
What can I do if I am worried about my
drinking? Seek help. Alcoholics Anonymous can help.
What is Alcoholics Anonymous? We are a
Fellowship of men and women who have lost the ability to control our
drinking and have found ourselves in various kinds of trouble as a
result of drinking. We attempt—most of us successfully—to create a
satisfying way of life without alcohol. For this we find we need the
help and support of other alcoholics in A.A.
If I go to an A.A. meeting, does that commit me to
anything? No. A.A. does not keep membership files, or
attendance records. You do not have to reveal anything about
yourself. No one will bother you if you don’t want to come back.
What happens if I meet people I know?
They
will be there for the same reason you are there. They will not
disclose your identity to outsiders. At A.A. you retain as much
anonymity as you wish. That is one of the reasons we call ourselves
Alcoholics Anonymous.
What happens at an A.A. meeting? An A.A.
meeting may take one of several forms, but at any meeting you will
find alcoholics talking about what drinking did to their lives and
personalities, what actions they took to help themselves, and how
they are living their lives today.
How can this help me with my drinking
problem? We in A.A. know what it is like to be addicted
to alcohol, and to be unable to keep promises made to others and
ourselves that we will stop drinking. We are not professional
therapists. Our only qualification for helping others to recover
from alcoholism is that we have stopped drinking ourselves, but
problem drinkers coming to us know that recovery is possible because
they see people who have done it.
Why do A.A.s keep on going to meetings after they are
cured? We in A.A. believe there is no such thing as a
cure for alcoholism. We can never return to normal drinking, and our
ability to stay away from alcohol depends on maintaining our
physical, mental, and spiritual health. This we can achieve by going
to meetings regularly and putting into practice what we learn there.
In addition, we find it helps us to stay sober if we help other
alcoholics.
How do I join A.A.? You are an A.A. member
if and when you say so. The only requirement for A.A. membership is
a desire to stop drinking, and many of us were not very wholehearted
about that when we first approached A.A.
How much does A.A. membership cost? There
are no dues or fees for A.A. membership. An A.A. group will usually
have a collection during the meeting to cover expenses, such as
rent, coffee, etc., and to this all members are free to contribute
as much or as little as they wish.
Is A.A. a religious organization? No. Nor is
it allied with any religious organization.
There’s a lot of talk about God, though, isn’t
there? The majority of A.A. members believe that we have
found the solution to our drinking problem not through individual
willpower, but through a power greater than ourselves. However,
everyone defines this power as he or she wishes. Many people call it
God, others think it is the A.A. group, still others don’t believe
in it at all. There is room in A.A. for people of all shades of
belief and nonbelief.
Can I bring my family to an A.A.
meeting? Family members or close friends are welcome at
“Open” A.A. meetings. Discuss this with your local contact.
What advice do you give new members? In our
experience, the people who recover in A.A. are those who: (a) stay
away from the first drink; (b) attend A.A. meetings regularly; (c)
seek out the people in A.A. who have successfully stayed sober for
some time; (d) try to put into practice the A.A. program of
recovery.
How can I contact A.A.? Look for Alcoholics
Anonymous in your local telephone directory. These telephones are
answered by A.A. volunteers who will be happy to answer your
questions, or put you in touch with those who can. If there is no
A.A. telephone service close to you, write or phone the A.A. General
Service Office.
Here is a list of A.A. pamphlets which may be
particularly helpful to you: Is There an Alcoholic in
Your Life? A.A. — 44 Questions Is A.A. for You? Do You Think You’re
Different? A.A. for the Woman Young People and A.A. Too Young?
Remember that alcoholism is a progressive disease. Take it
seriously, even if you feel you are only in the early stages of the
illness. Alcoholism kills people. If you are an alcoholic, and if
you continue to drink, in time you will get worse.
ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS® is a fellowship of men and women who share
their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may
solve their common problem and help others to recover from
alcoholism.
- The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop
drinking. There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership; we are
self-supporting through our own contributions.
- A.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics,
organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any
controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes.
- Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics
to achieve sobriety.
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